Why You Need To Be Happy With Problems

Problems range from clerical to social to administrative to spiritual, as far as life is concerned. And I once was fond of wondering why a good God would allow problems to trouble his beloved children. 

At first, I wondered why at all would such a good Father allow such an evil thing as I knew problems were. Then, as I became more mature, I realized why problems are not only allowed but also used by God, on us.  Why? 

Centuries of preachers have told us that these problems are for good, having been allowed by a good God. Now hear exactly how: God is training us, perfecting us for higher levels of existence. In this work of perfecting us, problems play a role similar to the one played by 🔥 in the work of turning raw food to cooked food or gold ore to pure gold. 

You can see that  according to the law of nature itself, a transformation from an inferior to a superior form, will always involve a challenge on the part of the inferior.  Pain purifies. Pleasure putrefies. As fire 'purifies' raw food to make it more useful to us, problems purify us to make us more useful to GOD as we apply our psyches (or spirits) to solve them. Problems crystallize higher evolutions of us out of us.

PLEASE, DON'T FAIL TO ALSO READ THIS: "A MINDSET THAT MAKES ANYONE GREAT IN 30 DAYS" AS A SEQUEL TO THIS. 

How I Stopped Getting Mad Over Past Mistakes

I know you may have had millions of motivational people and psycho healers telling you why and how to jettison the weight of your past that you might be carrying about. How very right they are in their own ways! Now, get my idea and add it to your weaponry in your war against regrets.

Before I proceed, it might interest you to know how much your regrets over your past mistakes affect your job and life negatively and generally. Let me tell you this with my own personal experience.

 Like anyone else struggling with human frailty, I have had my victories and failures in life. Looking back now, I realize none of these actually deserved an absolute tag of either 'failure' or 'victory' since certain victories led to failures and certain failures led to victories. My aim here is not to go to any details on these cases but to tell you the negative effects I permitted the 'failures' to produce in me and how I eventually upturned those effects.

First off, my life was just stagnant for years until I somehow thought it had to be that way since there was nothing I could lay hands on as being responsible for my plight. Incidentally, I had to read up stuffs and reflect over them, not really knowing what was going on until much later, years later. 

Eventually, the jigsaw began to piece together. "Oh yes" I seemed to realize. "Yes, yes, yes, I'm stuck in my past". I realized that, even in the dreamland, I would often be found in my elementary school and other past scenarios. Then, I also came to be conscious of my fixation on my past. I realized that I was in the mental habit of thinking "how could I have goofed?" in this or that instant. I would remember where and when I had said or did things I shouldn't have, and how it was now too late to not have had it that way.

There was even a time protracted joblessness made me regret ever going to high school and college since younger people I knew, who went into entrepreneurship after elementary school, were far more to be reckoned with than I was. And, there were even times I regretted ever being born and thought of ending my life to correct the mistake I was sure my life was. I realized I might be doing something and, all of a sudden, I would begin to beat myself, letting my mind trail off from the present concern. And, yes, it was a terrible life to have.

How did I finally come out of my past to my present to enable me get to my future?

1. I had to accept I am human and that I am therefore not alone in the forest of past mistakes. Every human being dead or living, have their own share of past mistakes. And, in fact, mistakes are so much a part of humanity that anyone who does not seem to have them, need not be proud of it. If you don't ever realize your own mistakes, it is likely that either you are so mentally poor you can't realize simple truth or you are so immature you are arrogantly denying obvious facts. Is it not then foolish of me to be so much fixated on the fact that I made mistakes, that I have been human?

2. I make a redress where I needed to and where possible. Toxic people find it extremely difficult to say sorry when they should. But I tell you that one of the sweetest experiences I have ever had is that of saying sorry genuinely from my heart. I don't need anyone one to say they have forgiven. Rather, once I know I was able to rise above self to admit my wrongs as mine and to express genuine remorse for them, I feel such an elation that must be how Paradise will feel. And some people think that saying sorry reduces their worth. But, my experience says the direct opposite: Some of the greatest respect I enjoy today, comes from where I most humbly and genuinely said sorry. Try it and see.

3. I completely resolve never to repeat any mistake I have made before. Well, I don't know how to tell you this but this resolve in question is more about being prayerful than being careful. A prayerful vigilance for the moment makes regrets over the past and anxiety towards the future, impossible. For me, praying is no other than living at the moment in the consciousness of Divinity. This consciousness alone connects you to the Divine Presence that's always right there with you. And when the Divine takes charge of your affairs, everything tends to work out on their own and for the best. 

Meanwhile...

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What you have read is inspired from Above to help YOU enjoy your work the more, whether you are a work-at-home mom, a factory worker, a white collar executive, a business owner, a government rep or whoever. It is one of such inspired thoughts I am given from time to time and called 'Wisdom From Heaven'. You can click on 'Home' below to read more and/or look below for the relevant SHARE buttons. Thank You.

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My Best Career Decision Ever Can Be Yours As Well

Although everyone seemed to know I was very uniquely gifted, I remained an expert at failing in everything for many years. But not until I took a decision to "pray about everything" (Phil 4:6-7).

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There was a time l took it for granted that praying is too serious a thing to be wasted on certain things I considered 'mundane trifles' such as my career life, or a file I am sorting or a sudden breakdown of my PC or a lady I was wooing(!). Or, was it actually that I did not consider prayer important enough to be a part and parcel of every area of my life? I think this latter should be more of it.

I CAME TO KNOW: It is certainly true that prayers get answered, but perhaps not as dramatically as some religious teachings claim. For instance, one very practical effect of truly praying about anything is that it immediately takes the psycho burdens off your spiritual shoulders. As you get light and lighter in your spirit,  fiam!, an idea you never knew existed, suddenly surfaces from nowhere, yet from somewhere, the Higher Realms.

And how do you pray? Well, everyone seems to already pray and yet, hardly are there people who truly pray in today's world. As Jesus is quoted to have said, "until now, you have not asked for anything in my name. Ask and you shall receive that your joy may be complete. 

As for me, after years of finding prayer almost always useless and ineffective, I found a most practical prayer idea in the same BIBLE I once looked on with terrible suspicion after years of getting disappointed that my prayers weren't answered as I was promised from so many pulpits. The prayer idea I am talking about, is domiciled in Psalm 94:9 which says, "fools, when will you understand? Can He who made the ear not hear? Can He who arranged the eye not see? " I got in this Bible verse, all the eureka I needed to genuinely pray. I realize beyond all doubt, that who/whatever has made these ears of mine cannot but be able to hear me and that only a moment of pure foolishness can ever prevent me from realizing this (surprisingly, even to myself,  I still have such moments of foolishness - a. k. a faithlessness - from time to time). 

But, I dare to break through my obviously foolish faithlessness, by visualizing the invisible Ear of the Maker of my ears, next to my mouth, and I whisper directly into that 👂 of 👂 👂 👂 - Ear of ears - that can only exist if my own ears have to exist. Oh, He hears!

I am also helped by another scripture directly attributed to Jesus Christ: "And when you pray, go into your inner room, and when you have bolted the door, pray to your Father who is IN THAT SECRET PLACE and your Father who SEES all that is done in secret, will reward you openly". A-ha!  Not only that He hears and sees, He is also HERE,  wherever is called 'here', everywhere.

He Who Made the Ear can hear

As He Who Made Gravity and air

Should be everywhere

Even here,

Yes... HERE!

He is certainly also there at your work place. So, what do you do? This: from time to time while you are at work, whisper to Him, the Boss of your boss, instead of trying to seek favour from any human. Discuss every bit of every task and issue you are handling at any moment with Him UNDER YOUR BREATH OR BY SIMPLE GENUINE WHISPERS. If you do this, and you do it consistently, you virtually be the Boss even to your own boss.

What you have read is inspired from Above to help YOU enjoy your work the more, whether you are a work-at-home mom, a factory worker, a white collar executive, a business owner, a government rep or whoever. It is one of such inspired thoughts I am given from time to time and called 'Wisdom From Heaven'. You can click on 'Home' below to read more and/or look below for the relevant SHARE buttons. 

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AN UNUSUALLY CERTAIN WAY TO EASE OFF HARD KNOTS IN YOUR DAILY TASKS

On the altar of office politics and work place success and survival, your profile leans on your performance at work above all else. Obviously, this is one reason you don't want to be left out when it comes to excellence at performing your tasks. 

Surely, you will still have envious colleagues and superiors hating on you for your excellence, but they will all be helpless about you. For instance, when malicious rumours are brought before the members of the management, those rumours don't get heeded easily because even the management need and respect you for your excellent performances. 

So, we discuss how to take care of task knots as a means of ensuring excellence at your job on a daily basis.

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Every accountant should be familiar with what I prefer to refer to as 'financial parallax error'. One of its occurrence is a situation whereby a humongous money value appears at the totals, but every attempt to trace the value to the body of the calculations appear totally impossible. Although I'm no professional accountant, I know this from the different informal accounting roles I've played in my life and career. So I believed the error should be common in an accountant's job.

If you have run into financial parallax before, you surely will agree it was far far from fun. Was it? Nor are such task knots peculiar to parallax or to an accountant's job.

The tasks you encounter at work daily, come with their 'unexpecteds' that will often run into most bewildering complex situations. Just one of such can keep your stress levels as high as heavens themselves and for so long that I dare to hold it forth as the single undiscovered most common cause of early aging among working people.

How do you cope with such situations as financial parallax? Surely, going by what academic psychology teaches, you must have already developed your own coping mechanisms. But, right here, I share with you the simplest most effective way ever that I have used to overcome task knots no matter how they come and in whatever form, saving myself lots and lots of stress. 

This is it: I turn my mind away from the task and from myself. By a subtle (not struggling) application of my will, I turn my mind first to neutral and hold it there. What I call 'neutral' here, is a truly and totally blank state of mind, a tabula rasa as it is called. You must not achieve a total tabula rasa though to be successful in this. But the closer you get to it, the more likely you will succeed.

The aim of this exercise is not to disconnect your brain from you biologically, but instead, to disconnect your mind completely from humanity and its debris of base concerns that clog up the mind and spirit unnecessarily - as a preparation for the next step which has absolute importance for the present purpose.

The next step is about connecting to my Divinity. Once I truly enter my divine levels, the difficulty simply resolves with little or no adoes whatsoever: if you have practiced the previous step well, the telling sign is that you should be feeling tingly mentally, absolutely refreshed. And that should take you no more than 5 minutes to pull off. But, you are not expected to count time. Instead, just soar in the spirit for as long as it takes you to achieve a tabula rasa and then, connect to your Divinity. You might be wondering what this is supposed to mean. Well, it's no mystery at all as you will surely see just now.

As I have already said, in your 'neutral' you are expected to disconnect your mind from not only the task at hand, but also from virtually everything. To help you do this, I tell you this: Do you ever consider the case of someone who just died? How all his plans, worries and concerns gets abandoned in one brief instant? Now, I tell you that if YOU should die just now, all those your worries and bothers will no longer matter. Does this call for a fearful or irresponsible living? Certainly not. Instead, I urge you to learn from that why and how to disconnect your mind as I have already posited. Just imagine what the world and all its cares would mean to you JUST NOW if you were to be here and now dead! Now, try creating such mental scenario for a few minutes and you have achieved what I call your mental 'neutral' or a tabula rasa. Try it now and I promise you will soon be getting addicted to it. 

What you feel doing this might be the state of euphoria people seek in drugs except that it is without the damaging chemical effects of drugs. It's certainly a great mental state to attain but, as far as easing off task knots are concerned, you are not stopping there or you might be at the risk of being irresponsible. So, on we go.

How do you enter your divine level of mind that gets the knot resolved? First of all, you need to realize that by 'Divinity' I mean the Being of being, commonly called 'God' by the streeters. I mean This Real Being responsible for our very existence, who crafted us as we are - eye, ear, mind, body and all - and the entire Universe which we are witnesses to, every moment. Second, you need to realize that this Divinity is more real than anything else that is real. He is the Reality behind the reality of anything or anyone else what/whosoever. 

But Divinity is so great in dimension that our human natural faculties cannot grasp Him directly - so we say that He is invisible. Oh yes, Divinity is invisible TO US. As a scripture puts it, "God is spirit" (John 4:24).

We already mentioned that Divinity is the Reality behind the reality of everything and everyone. When it comes to us human beings, how in fact is God or Divinity the Reality behind our realities? Go into yourself and REALIZE yourself. Note the word 'realize' here, how it has a common root with the word 'real' and 'reality' and notice the connection. Realize that the REAL YOU cannot be seen with the natural human eye and yet, as you can testify even here and now, YOU are no less real. Oh yes, your guess is as good as mine: YOU are an invisible REALity, a spirit just like God. You are a copy of Divinity. It is what the ancients got as a revelation when they declared that we are made in the 'image and likeness' of God (Genesis 1:26) and also when they declared to us, "I tell you, you are gods" (Psalm 82:6 and corroborated by Jesus Christ on John 10:34). 

In actuality however, we are not copies of God the way a photocopy is of the original. We are not copies meant to be apart from the Original. Instead, we are meant to be parts and parcels of the Original, much like but far superior to, how a branch is a copy of the tree. It is the fact Jesus was at pains to make available to our human awareness level when he is quoted as saying in His Divinity, 'I am the Vine and you are the branches' (John 15:5). We are not just Divine copies, we are are Divine kinds and more that we may never be able to say at the contemporary evolution of our language.

But...how do all these concern you when we are only talking about the mere question of you handling your daily tasks efficiently with less tear and wear? Are we not like killing a fly with a sledge hammer? If you understood how spiritual are your daily tasks and life, you would know we are not yet going over the board here. For one thing, every task you embark on is a part of you obeying the Creator's instruction for us to 'subdue the earth and replenish it'. Again, we are talking about solving your daily task difficulties by taking advantage of your so called spiritual powers. We need to stop mystifying some of these things. And your task difficulties are not 'mere' any way. After all, they can make you age faster than you should.

So, what do you do when faced with an inexplicable task knot? How do you take advantage of these things we have been saying? One, instead of spending - or better, wasting - your spiritual/mental energy worrying about the task, after getting to your 'neutral' as already said, visualize your spirit as one with the Almighty Spirit of God. Let your humanity get lost in the Great Divine as a teaspoonful of water would get lost in an ocean and still be existing. The teadpoonful of water, when poured into the ocean, does not lose its essence. What it loses is it's form of existence: from limited to limitless. It is able to merge with the mighty Ocean only because, it was already a mini copy of the Ocean. Now... now... yes now, as a part of the Ocean, the power of the Ocean becomes the power of what was once a teaspoonful. It is carried on the shoulder of a Giant and, therefore, it is reckoned with as a giant. There is no other way to perform a miracle than this. 

Dear reader, my own dear reader, please listen to me: YOUR spirit is this teaspoonful in question here, and the ever abiding Divine Spirit, the Imman-u-El of Psalm 139, is the Divine Ocean. It is in This Divine Ocean "we all live and move and are" (Act 17:28). And, as valid mini copies of this Great Divine Ocean, we human spirits have a special opportunity of merging with it. When we do, we rule over the world and its difficulties such as our task, personal and social difficulties.

So, how do you apply all these when faced with a thorny situation here and now? Close your eyes, get to your neutral, then, by sheer power of your faith, visualize your spirit here and now as ONE with the Almighty Divinity (at the very point of your difficulty). Soak your consciousness in that state of your spiritual Oneness with the Almighty Spirit with whom nothing is ever difficult. As you do this, the difficulty before you resolves and dissolves. Quite often, you suddenly realize what you should have done and you know without a single doubt that that's the right course to follow. And, as you follow that course, resources, both physical and human, get delivered to you. But, there are zillion other ways the solution comes. 

What you have read is inspired from Above to help YOU enjoy your work the more, whether you are a work-at-home mom, a factory worker, a white collar executive, a business owner, a government rep or whoever. It is one of such inspired thoughts I am given from time to time and called 'Wisdom From Heaven'. You can click on 'Home' below to read more and/or look below for the relevant SHARE buttons. Thank you.

ATTENTION PLEASE!!! 

I urge everyone to read my recent post entitled "THE SECRET SPIRITUALITY OF SIMPLE SEX" which is about the secret power of every person's sexuality that 95% of people don't seem to know about. Click here to read it. 

Activate Your Natural Spiritual Powers

My people, faith is power, endless power, as you will probably agree following this tip . Faith in God is power, not religion, if religion means the empty hurtful way of life we have known it to be. 

This faith sitting right here in the silence of your bosom, is endless power here and now. Now, get what you need to activate this power you already have - the total and true awareness of it. And, did I need to tell you you needed this stuff we call 'faith' in virtually everything you are concerned with and so, in your career life every step of the way? 

Now, after following this tip attentively, faith will certainly cease to be just a word to you. Instead, you will know it as POWER, your natural spiritual power capable of just anything.

To begin with, you need not be careless all because you've got faith. No. Faith, if it is true, can never produce even a semblance of irresponsibility which is what carelessness would portend. So, be careful with everyone you meet and know all because many people are carrying thoughts in their minds that you can never imagine possible. And, in fact, this is just one reason faith in God has only to be a necessary part and parcel of any fulfilled human life. 

You don't have what it takes to completely access other people's thoughts. So, tread carefully with them all, I mean ALL.  As Jesus put it, "Be harmless as a 🕊 but wise as a 🐍".

So be careful... But, far more importantly, be PRAYERFUL. 

FAITH IS REALITY OVER RELIGION 

I don't care about the religion you profess but, for me, praying is nothing else than acknowledging the Reality of the Being of being, the being that brought and brings being to be and, without whom you and I and all else, would have been absolute NOTHINGNESS. Our being here is as a result of His Being here. Although we may belong to different religions, we all belong to one Reality only. 

We have one Source, one Ultimate Parenthood. That's why whether we are Buddhists, or Christians, Hinduists or Muslims, Shintoists or whoever, we all normally have five fingers on each hand, and five toes on each foot. Not four for Muslims, five for Buddhists and six for Christians. A Real Being conscious and capable enough to place five fingers and five toes on each hand and foot with exactitude is our common Source. We have common physical and psychic features. We are all members of ONE reality obviously while we are members of different religions. In fact, as we know, not everyone is a member of a religion. But, everyone is a part and parcel of - that is, a member of - reality (Reality, actually). 

Therefore, no matter your religion, what you needed most, is to know the Being we call God, more really than religiously. I sense someone arguing silently over this point I have made just now. You can air your concern. But know this: this is no time for argument. It is rather time to manifest power, endless but latent power domiciled in every one of us, and is activated to the extent that its Source is acknowledged INDEED. So, we talk about the reality rather than the religiosity of faith.

What you have read is inspired from Above to help YOU enjoy your work the more, whether you are a work-at-home mom, a factory worker, a white collar executive, a business owner, a government rep or whoever. It is one of such inspired thoughts I am given from time to time and called 'Wisdom From Heaven'. You can click on 'Home' below to read more and/or look below for the relevant SHARE buttons. 

ATTENTION PLEASE!!! 

I urge everyone to read my recent post entitled "THE SECRET SPIRITUALITY OF SIMPLE SEX" which is about the secret power of every person's sexuality that 95% of people don't seem to know about. Click here to read it. 

Beat Workplace Witches and Wizards Hands Down This Way

If you don't do well at your work place, you will have a problem with your boss(es) or with your clientele/customers, in case you are self employed. But that is nothing compared to the problem you will have when you do well. 

Look at it: When you do well, your superiors feel threatened by you and your colleagues work against you in every way, imbued with envy. Your colleagues may attack you with character assassination. They seek every opportunity to peddle mean rumours about you, while many of your superiors - already taken with hateful feelings against YOU - are all too eager to implement those rumours directly or otherwise. At least, they may let the rumours influence how they talk to YOU sometimes about a task they would have you perform. And, did you even need to tell us that all these make your days at work a kind of hell on earth?

Now, it might interest you to know that all these mean efforts to keep you sad are only a part of the whole picture. They are just a part of an entire spiritual machinery of witchcraft and wizardry being targeted at you. The spiritual battle ground is the mental plane - the mind, in plain language. 

So, whatever touches your mind has touched the real you and to the extent it touches your mind. It's the reason a major strategy of the spiritually crafty evil people and spirits, is to impinge on your thoughts and feelings. But with the scriptures I say to you: guard your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the issue of life. Not many people seem to understand what this scripture says. It says that your entire life, issues (ie. pours) out of your heart. (I hope you know that the invisible realms are not not as balkanizable as the visible realms so that words like 'heart', 'mind', 'soul' and 'psyche' are hardly any different from one another in reality). 

Your visible daily life pours out of a spiritual store in you the way water may issue out of a tank via a tap. This spiritual cavern from which your life issues, is often identified as 'heart', 'mind' and with similar names. That is why the evil essences target that source to get it sullied as the easiest way to get your entire life itself into a mire, a mess. It is then equally why the wise counsel asks you to guard that source with all diligence. ALL diligence, it says. That tells you how serious the matter is. It is about your very life.

Meanwhile, are the spiritual battles you encounter at work as simple as just people hating you and making your heart ache so often? I am sorry to tell you that - as seriously heart rending as this situation is already - it is just the tip of the iceberg. 

The way people hate you at work for no just cause, should already be an eye opener to you that they are capable of doing anything to mess your life up all because they want what you have - position, accolades, attention, relationships, etc. 

Now, I tell you my personal finding: in virtually every work place and community I know, there are individuals who are deep into Voodoo, witchcraft, wizardry and similar practices, and who readily employ them to gain advantage over others. And, you expect them surely to target those who are outstanding, whose lives make it clear that they are not measuring up indeed. 

I'm almost certain that some of your own misfortunes at home, at work or anywhere, and some of the misfortunes already suffered by people you know, are as a result of such evil energies channelled in your or their direction. And one thing with those unholy hearts is that they hate you so much that they don't mind the amount of time and resources they expend just to track you down since they consider that their existence is threatened by your own existence.

In any case, this is not an attempt to get you tensed up and paranoid. Instead, I am here to help you and show you how to use your natural mind (or spiritual) power to always ride above your physical and spiritual detractors at your work place and beyond. No well meaning person would expect you to learn the profound spiritual skills needed here by reading just one article like this. In fact, it is indeed a lifelong kind of thing. So, I urge you to join us in this blog and get equipped to use a spiritual advantage you already have over your haters, to upturn or return WHATEVER evil darts they ever aimed or aim at you.

What you have read is inspired from Above to help YOU enjoy your work the more, whether you are a work-at-home mom, a factory worker, a white collar executive, a business owner, a government rep or whoever. It is one of such inspired thoughts I am given from time to time and called 'Wisdom From Heaven'. You can click on 'Home' below to read more and/or look below for the relevant SHARE buttons.

ATTENTION PLEASE!!! 

I urge everyone to read my recent post entitled "THE SECRET SPIRITUALITY OF SIMPLE SEX" which is about the secret power of every person's sexuality that 95% of people don't seem to know about. Click here to read it. 

How To Not Be Belittlable

Hey! I got a new word for the English speaking world today and it is... 'belittlable'! Meanwhile,  shouldn't it have been  here all the while? After all,  don't we have English words like "belittling "? Shouldn't we have had "belittlable" as well? Haha!

Now, that's for fun. We are here for a totally different business  even if it has to do with the word "belittle" or any of its derivatives. So,  what are we talking about? How to be totally unbelittlable. It's words galore today, isn't it?

Every office and community, has its own share of toxic fellows. And a common characteristic of toxic people is a constant attempt to belittle other people. They seem to think that they get higher by reducing others. What an erroneous mindset! No wonder they are not normal and are therefore described as 'toxic' or 'immature' - such words! 

And they eventually get to be described as 'insane' unless they get help along the line. Unfortunately, quite unfortunately, many outright insanity cases out there today are toxic people who refused help arrogantly. And, did I need to tell you that, everywhere, a degree of arrogance is a manifestation of a degree of mental ill health. Quote me if you wish.

So, how do you keep afloat toxic people at the office and everywhere especially when it comes to their persistent attempts to make you feel smaller than God made you? The worst of it all is the power they seem to have over how you feel. They make your work days not worth having. What a huge chunk of your life they seem to run! At least five out of the seven days of your weeks!

This is a never-known tip that works no matter what, who or where: Learn to be humble without being subservient. When you are not humble, tongues wag across the office that 'that fellow (YOU) is full of himself' as if those saying it are emptied of themselves. 

It only takes someone who is full of him/herself to stop minding their business and start noticing someone else who are "full of themselves". But people say that daily. Then they reach a unanimous agreement that they are right about you. 

The worst part is that, if you are humble and subservient, you become even an easier target for mean attitudes and rumors from those poor toxic souls. Needless to say, such rumours get to affect your networks both within and without even if they have weak foundations you can easily unravel and take advantage of.  

Well, logic is not a language these almost unthinking people understand. So our aim here is not to change them towards you but to make you apply your spirit to overcome their irrationality and control them for good instead. After all, isn't it said that 'idea rules the world'? Shouldn't the wise rule over the fools anymore as the holy scriptures say?

Meanwhile, this tip is for YOU if indeed you are among the wise: how to use your wisdom to control toxic people - whether they are your superiors, colleagues or inferiors - rather than let them run and ruin 5/7 of your life.

So, at your work place, to beat the hell toxic in their own game, learn to respect everyone with your head held high - not arrogantly but confidently. But how do you do this in fact? Start with this: Interact with colleagues with your head held high, a smile on your face and especially LOOKING THEM EYEBALL-TO-EYEBALL, but with genuine respect. Don't talk much and don't worry about how stupid people are or try to limit their excesses. Read The Parable of the Unwary Genius and see why. 

As you interact this way, toxic people are intimidated by your personality without having what to use against you. So, they remain helpless about you. If there is one who insists on being mean with you, keep being gentle with him. Then, just when he feels he has you in his/her palms, take advantage of one of the cases he is going to be clearly unfair with you to take him unawares by being intensely but briefly stern with him. This takes the coward suddenly off his feet.

I have been inspired with words to help the truly wise rule over the truly foolish in our world especially at the work places. I have never seen anyone who considered himself or herself foolish. Instead, everyone seems to be wise in her/his own eyes. So, the only way you'll recognize yourself as one of those for whom these words are intended is that they would have been making sense to you by now. Believe me, that's why and how you have read to this point in the first place. So, I urge you to take these words to heart and share them with as many people as you can - I hope you know that the greatest tool of wisdom is selflessness. There are spiritual ducts of wisdom that pettiness clogs up, much like the way cholesterol clogs up the blood vessels. That's why, anyone who must be wise must learn how to think away from SELF to OTHERS. So, the moment you see yourself thinking, "how can I use these tips to take undue advantage of others" just know you have missed it's substance and therefore, you don't hope to enjoy the great benefits of wisdom which they have come to implant in you. So share this blog and our social media platforms: the more we have truly wise people ruling the world, the best for all of us.

What you have read is inspired from Above to help YOU enjoy your work the more, whether you are a work-at-home mom, a factory worker, a white collar executive, a business owner, a government rep or whoever. It is one of such inspired thoughts I am given from time to time and called 'Wisdom From Heaven'. You can click on 'Home' below to read more and/or look below for the relevant SHARE buttons.

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